Findom is kind of scary, isnÂ’t it? We both know it excites you but every single time you watch a clip and go to follow my directionsÂ…you just canÂ’t. YouÂ’re holding yourself back. This time IÂ’ve got you in the palm of my hand. We donÂ’t need to do this all at once though. We can have fun exploring thisÂ… all you need to do is stroke yourself and follow my instructions.